In my experience with women... Having a GF at one time or another, Having Friends and Sisters as well as just conversating with women in passing.

I feel that women tend to be passion driven more so than a man. I hear a lot of women talk about chemistry...

So what dictates Chemistry... That I can't tell you and I would be really surprised if anyone here can tell us what makes things go boom...

I see a lot of us are like the blind chemist. We are trying to throw all this stuff in the mix and expect a healthy reaction....

So what are you looking for? A fire or Explosion? Well I want the Explosion and then the fire... But I'd settle for a nice longlasting Inferno.

I find that lots of people especially the women I speak with, But they are expecting that they meet someone and there is an INSTANT reaction... If it doesn't happen within a few minutes then they dump it and move on to the next.

What if I told you that some of the Most Explosive and reactive reactions are the ones that you have to tend to. Stir ever so gently and then you end up with one of the most volitile explosives you could ever imagine.

Besides the Split Second reactions rarely amount to much more than a bunch of noise.

What I am trying to say here is that just because there are no Instant Sparks doesn't mean that there can be no chemical reaction. How Important is Love to you?

Be patient... even Wet Wood can burn.
I say women cause it seems that the Guy is the one who typically brings the wood and the woman has that passion (FIRE)... Give a guy the chance to give you the wood before you say there can be no fire....
Remember that Fire is a living breathing and ever changing thing. and it will take the both of you to keep it going.

Aw Shucks Silver.. You sure know how to make me blush...

Your relationship sounds AWESOME it's no wonder you seem so content. I mean from your responses you are truly an inspiration for those of us that are still working in our labs not to give up. Thank you

My suggestion is to wink at a guy that you might like and perhaps there is no "chemistry"

Honestly How much "Chemistry" can you really feel from a photo and a few words on the screen? You might be passing up a few keepers who might have a slow reaction and a SONIC BOOM.

Just a thought

I have only seen a few guys on this site that I can honestly say I would have good chemestry with... so I winked at them. You are right you cant force it or make it happen. It just is! I just wish they would have felt what I was feeling and responded likewise. But everyone must be true to themselves. I have a lot of passion for the right person ..... and like you said it will happen when it happens...